Welcome
(* From the song "Circle of Friends" by Roger Emerson)
Saturday, June 30, 2012
The Myth of "Summers Off"
Thursday, May 17, 2012
Unity in Diversity
It is said that the well-known Buddha and Shiva are two different substances.They are indeed different, yet how is it possible to recognize their difference in a glance, since the truth of Jina (Buddha) and the truth of Shiva is one?They are indeed different, but they are of the same kind, as there is no duality in Truth.– Sutasoma, translation by Soewito Santoso
There are also special initiatives in
the areas of education and outreach, one of which is taking place
this week. West Chester Friends School is sponsoring the ChesterCounty Historical Society's screening of “Brother Outsider: TheLife of Bayard Rustin,” followed by a panel discussion, this
Saturday, 1:00-4:00 at CCHS. I encourage all interested to join me
there. (Please note: this event is not for children.) A follow-up discussion will be held here at school on Tuesday evening at
7:00. You are welcome to join the conversation whether or not you
are able to attend on Saturday.* [For more on Rustin, check out this piece, produced by alum parent Kimberly Haas, that aired on the March 12 edition of WHYY's Radio Times. The CCHS exhibit runs through the summer, and it is well worth visiting.]
Thursday, April 5, 2012
Folktale Festival - Day Three
The final day of our Folktale Festival began this morning in Meeting for Worship with a reading of Old Turtle, by Douglas Wood. In Quaker practice, Meeting for Worship can often begin with an opening exercise or the reciting of a query in order to focus our thoughts on a particular theme. I chose to read Old Turtle in part because, while it is not a folktale, it has elements of a folktales that address questions such as how the world began. It also contains an important message about taking care of the earth, which goes along perfectly with this month's focus on the testimony of stewardship.Out of the silence that followed the reading of the tale, several students spoke about how important it is not to pollute. Some messages came from fourth graders, recently returned from their overnight at Echo Hill Outdoor School. A third grader, reflecting the question from Old Turtle of what and where God is said, "I think the most powerful force in the world is love, and God is love."
In the library, T. Ruth has been introducing students to folktales from around the world throughout the year. In case you have not yet done so, take a look at her description of one of the most recent experiences: Yiddish tales from Nobel Prize winner Isaac Bashevis Singer.
This afternoon the final Festival events included, fittingly, presentations by both our youngest and oldest students, as well as rich exchanges among them.
In the cottage, the preschool children presented The Ugly Duckling to their parents, followed by a group singing of Circle of Friends and The More We Get Together. They then headed outside for the fun of an Easter egg hunt.At the same time, the rest of the school gathered in the meeting house for two treats. First, we enjoyed watching the video of the pre-kindergarten class acting out Kumak's Fish.
In reflecting upon the past three days, it has been gratifying to see all that the students have learned as well as the joy they had in sharing with schoolmates, teachers, and parents -- which are, in the end, among the major reasons for the All-School Unit at West Chester Friends School. The teachers will soon be turning their attention to choosing next year's theme. Until then . . .
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Folktale Festival - Day Two
The Folktale Festival wraps up tomorrow. More to come . . .
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Folktale Festival - Day One
Today is the first of our three-day Folktale Festival, a celebration of this year's All-School Unit, "Folktales and Legends." Since the beginning of the year, students have been learning about this theme through special lessons and activities with their classroom teachers and in many of the special area subjects. These festival days provide an opportunity for students throughout the school to share what they have learned and accomplished with each other, and to celebrate the art of story telling.At the conclusion of this morning's very first performance (kindergarten's puppet show for the fifth grade) I smiled at the realization that the festival was already meeting one of it's major goals. It was gratifying to hear our oldest students offer very specific and thoughtful words of affirmation and commendation to their younger buddies. Similar interactions happened throughout the day as children of various ages asked questions and appreciated each others' work.
Some of the events were designed specifically for a student audience, while others lent themselves to include parents. I have the great privilege of taking in all of the festival performances, displays, and activities. am glad to share the following images from the day . . . with more to come tomorrow!
Day One

Kindergarten's puppet show, "Tales of Kindergarten," explained various parts of their day (morning message, math, science, music, etc.) to their fifth grade meeting buddies.
First grade presented two shadow puppet shows: The Rumor, A Jataka Tale from India (taken from the book by Jan Thornhill) and The Rooster's Antlers, A Story of the Chines Zodiac, as retold by Eric A. Kimmel. Fifth graders recognized characteristics of the Indian story from their own study of Jataka tales.
Pre-kindergarten acted out the story of Kumak's Fish, A Tall Tale from the Far North, by Michael Bania, as narrated by T. Annmarie. Their performance was recorded in order to spare them the pressure of a live performance. Parents got to see the video today, and the rest of the school will view it on Thursday.
Second graders hosted visitors to their "Fairy Tale Gallery," where original fairy tales and illustrations were on display, as well as castles created through cooperative teamwork. Visitors enjoyed snacks of ogre eggs and troll stew!
In art class, second graders glazed their ceramic dragons.
Third graders, divided into small groups, shared The Story of Jumping Mouse, a Native American tale from the Plains region, with first grade audiences.
Fourth grade told The Groundhog Wars, a Pennsylvania folktale by Robin Moore, using expressive narration and handmade illustrations (including a homemade version of a "tunnel tickler").Robin Moore will be our visiting artist tomorrow. Until then . . .
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Listen!
Last month I wrote about story telling. Recently I’ve been thinking quite a bit about the flip side of story telling: namely, listening.
Active listening is as important a skill as the ability to create, write, and tell stories. If stories (as I wrote last month) help to weave the fabric of our society, bind us together, and are integral to the human experience, then it should go without saying that intentional and focused listening is also right up there on the hierarchy of essential skills.
The encouragement and development of listening skills occurs at West Chester Friends School from the earliest moments of each day. During morning meetings (an integral part of Responsive Classroom), students and teachers first greet each other while making eye contact and using names, taking turns to speak and listen to each other - a simple task that is at the heart of good communication. Morning meetings also include sharing when, again, as much emphasis is placed on listening and asking questions as on whatever is being shared.
Listening is essential to learning experiences throughout the day and is particularly important during special events. When, for example, the fifth grade opened the doors to the Native American museum they created last week, younger students were instructed before entering to be a good audience for the oldest students’ presentations - and they were! Tomorrow, during Grandparents and Special Friends Day, many students will spend time hearing about what school and life in general were like for their elder friends. Such inter-generational conversations are invaluable.
Meeting for Worship is the centerpiece of our week. While some may say that it is simply “sitting in silence,” it can be a much deeper experience. Many Quakers describe meeting as sitting “in expectant waiting,” listening for the “still small voice” that is in each one of us. While the “success” of a meeting does not depend upon whether anyone speaks, it is encouraging when students do rise to share a message - what Quakers call “vocal ministry.” The act of listening to these messages, and taking them with us, play an equal role in the vitality of a meeting.
Last week I had the good fortune to hear Michele Norris, co-host of NPR’s All Things Considered, speak about her new book, The Grace of Silence. In the wake of the 2008 presidential election, she had “set out to write a book exploring America’s hidden conversation about race but changed course when (she) started listening to the hidden conversations in (her) own family.” In several cases, Norris told her audience, she needed to wait patiently for months before some stories were shared. The result of her patience and listening is a compelling memoir, not only of her family, but of a not-so-distant piece of our nation’s story.
From Michele Norris I also learned about the National Day of Listening, which is coming up this Friday. The day was established by StoryCorps as an encouragement to sit and have a meaningful conversation with someone special on the day after Thanksgiving, rather than head to the mall. You may be familiar with StoryCorps’ project to collect audio recordings of interviews as an oral history archive. Trying to accomplish that may be too much for this weekend, but it’s not too much to simply sit with a relative or friend . . . and listen.
This year, the theme for the National Day of Listening is “Thank a teacher,” with the suggestion that we reach out to a favorite teacher - by calling, writing a note, or posting a message on their site - to say, “Thank you for touching my life.”
What better way to show that we were listening?
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Will You Tell Me a Story?
“Will you tell me a story?”
These words evoke an image of a young child sitting on a lap or under the covers wishing to hear another tale told by a caring adult – a nostalgic scene that we remember from our childhoods and, if we’re lucky, get to relive in our adulthood as the storytellers.
We all have stories to tell. When we share our experiences by telling and listening to stories, the fabric of our society is woven. Stories bind us together and are integral to the human experience. They inform us about our past and help us make sense of our present. As it turns out, they are also essential to navigating our way in the future. As Daniel Pink explains in his New York Times bestseller, A Whole New Mind, story is one of six right-brained aptitudes that are necessary for success and fulfillment in what he calls the Conceptual Age, and that are often under-emphasized in schools. As we emerge from the Information Age, with facts being “so widely available and instantly accessible, each one becomes less valuable. What begins to matter more,” Pink writes, “is the ability to place these facts in context and to deliver them with emotional impact. And that is the essence of the aptitude of Story – context enriched by emotion . . . a deeper understanding of how we fit in and why that matters.”
Story is a part of our daily lives at WCFS beginning with our youngest students and the earliest minutes of every day. Students begin their day with Morning Meeting which often includes time for children to share what is important to them – their personal stories. Literature is the foundation of everything that we do in the language arts; in order to tell a story, you need to be able to hear and read a story. As students learn to write, they draw first upon personal experiences for subject matter. Third graders learn, record, and pass on their families' stories as part of their study of Immigration. Storytelling is even a part of music classes, where instruments are used to evoke feelings and emotions in the telling of "sound stories." Intergenerational experiences such as Grandparents' Day and visits with our neighbors at The Hickman are reminders that listening is a major (and often overlooked) component of storytelling. This year, the faculty have chosen “Folktales and Legends” to be our all-school theme, placing even greater emphasis on the lessons to be learned from tales of the past.
As members of the WCFS community, we all have stories about our most memorable school experience. One of my favorites is about the birth of our daughter on the first day of school in my first year as Head of School. On the other end of the spectrum, I recently recounted on my blog the story of how, just five days later, we experienced the events of September 11 here at school.
I invite you to share your WCFS stories. In celebration of the school’s 175th year, we are collecting 175 memories from alumni, alumni parents, current and former faculty and board members, Meeting members, and friends. Any and all memories are welcome from specifics about a particular teacher, activity, subject or event, to something broader (“I loved playing on the lawn.”). Short or lengthy, funny or poignant, we want to hear what you think of when you remember WCFS. The stories will be compiled in a book that will be available for purchase and go in our archive. Some will also be shared on our web site. You may mail your memory to the school, email development@wcfriends.org, or leave a message at 610-696-2820.
Will you tell us a story?

